Arranged marriages are always tricky when you don't know your partner well enough. Marriage for me is all about understanding and managing your partner's expectations. Not all the expectations can be met, but setting them out before you start a relationship makes things more easier since marriages are about two different individuals being put together all of a sudden. Once the expectations are defined, it solves 50% of the misunderstandings that could creep in.
I expect, my "wife" to be a partner in crime and have an opinion in household decisions and also stop me when required. She's open to have her suggestions and in no way will her freedom be restricted since she's entitled to have her space. I like women who are independent, ambitious and career oriented but still take time to pursue their passion and hobbies. Having a work-life balance is ideal and I believe reinventing a relationship as a couple is necessary and hence I would like her to be a part of it.
I'm very much attached to my family and would expect the same from her and treat my parents as her own, since I would do the same.
In short - I'm family oriented, ambitious, upright, jovial, organised and a balanced person.
My son has a B.Tech degree in Computer Science and he is working in a good Private company as a Lead Engineer (Software) at INFOPARK, Kochi for more than 8 years, We belong to an Upper Middle class, Nuclear family with Traditional values.
Abishek is 26, 5-10', fair and handsome. A graduate in engineering ( B.Tech E&C), he is presently serving as Asst Manager in a public sector bank at Cochin. He is intelligent, well informed and ambitious.He plays cricket and badminton and is a good swimmer. He is fond of music, reading, movies and travelling. He is a vegetarian, non smoker and tee totaller. His father is working in BSNL and mother in a nationalised bank at Trivandrum. His only younger brother is in final year engineering. Meternal grand parents are residing in Trivandrum. Two paternal uncles are bank officers at Chennai and a maternal uncle is a Wing Commander in IAF. We are on the look out for a suitable match for Abishek and expect her to be from a good family, well educated , beautiful and fair.
Sriram is my eldest son and he is pursuing full time MBA at the University of California, Irvine and will graduate in the fall of 2020. He intends to return to India after graduation. Prior to his MBA, he worked in the US close to 6 years as a Tech consultant in companies such as Fidelity Investments, Freddie Mac and United health group.
He is always calm and collected, and has a very positive outlook to life. He is a voracious reader and some of his favorite books are Sapiens, Red Queen and this explains everything. He is a fitness buff and is very athletic. His favorite sports are volley ball and cricket.
Namaskaram. I belong to Kerala Iyer community and I am looking for a suitable match from the same community. I am a simple, confident, and friendly person. Also, fun-loving, soft-spoken and kind-hearted too. I work in Cisco, Bangalore. Ours is a nuclear family with moderate values. My parents are settled in Ernakulam, Kerala.
My son's name is ARJUN SANKAR N. He has completed B.Tech from an highly reputed Government college in Kerala,and after working for a year in a US based company under campus placement,did his MBA in a very reputed institution in India.He is at present working in a Leading Private Sector Bank in their Head Office Mumbai.He has completed the course in March 2019.He hails from a Very respectable Educated family in Kerala.He is consistently good in his academics right from his schooling.He is a Strict Vegeterian in Food habits,and also appreciates both North Indian and South Indian foods.He is an easy going person,having lot of Friends at different levelsand in different places. He also believes in maintaining continuous relationships with family members and elders even at extended levels.He is always ready to offer whatever help possible to his friends and others.He always maintains a Good blend of both Traditional and modern values in his day to day life.
OTHER HOBBIES AND DETAILS OF ARJUN SANKAR
1. Playing Lawn Tennis
2.Playing Key Board
3.Extensive Travelling in India & Abroad
I am currently working in the private sector as a software professional, after having completed my bachelor's degree. I come from an upper middle class family with liberal family values. We belong to nuclear family currently living in Kochi. I am planning to move to Canada soon.